Money and it's influence in a relationship.

love sometimes can be very complicating and unpredictable. One minute, you presume you love your spouse dearly AND can do anything to keep him or her forever locked in your blossom.

The next minute, you are contemplating to quit and any flimsy excuse you lay your hands on would be the best opportunity to strike just to dabble into another relationship you might be considering best for you at the moment.

Little wonder, people often find themselves In a love triangle; a situation where you believe to be having same and equal feelings for two people at the same time. And in such a complex situation, some may dump their former partner for the latest one. Probably he may be more flamboyant, cuter and possibly overgenerous in his spending. (who no like better thing?)

We all know the more money mentality running through the head of our present day Nigerian babes. It's such a shame that these days, the love of money and the greed to acquire more has led our Young girls into committing all sorts of atrocities just to belong.

It's our Nigerian babes that see it as a right for a guy to take care of them financially. Once a babe snags up a new guy, she starts thinking of him buying her everything right from her clothes to her menstrual pad. Why must you see that prospective guy coming into your life as a meal ticket? if he truly loves you, you don't need to tell or beg him to buy you this or that before he does.

Anti. Eez nor laidat.

Care and affection are the natural out growth of love. A guy might be as rich as Bill Gates, if he doesn't love you or you find it difficult to reciprocate the supposed love he confesses to have for you, then why do you want to die there?.

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