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Here are ten practical steps that will teach you how to stop loving that girl or guy that you broke up with. This is to help you move on and not spend your days loving someone that's not there anymore. 1. Go out more. This really helps a lot. Especially if you are the type that's always indoor, doing nothing. Pick yourself up, go out, engage in new things, new people, new environment. The more you're out there, the lesser you think about "the love" 2. Do something. Something. Anything. Just, do something that can constantly engage you and can constantly keep you busy. 3. Don't call. As much as you will be tempted to open the dailer and call, don't! When you call to check up on him/her, you will take yourself a thousand steps back from recovery. 4. Stay away from romantic movies. You can't treat diabetes by taking in more sugar. It's as simple as that. 5. Delete or hide pictures. You might want to totally delete the picture...

I had a three years plus relationship once. A very beautiful girl. Law student. Caring. Extremely intelligent!, Sweet. Energetic. With the sexy eyes and smart brain. Oh, she has the ass and boobs accurately. Those ones are important too. I ended it and we both walked away. No crying. No wailing. No shouting. No dragging of feet. She didn't go to Facebook to write men are scum. I didn't go to anybody to badmouth her too. Oh, don't say we didn't love each other. We did! Those three years are the most romantic of my life. No cheating. No lies. No violence. I worked on her law assignments for her. She kept pushing me to be better and do better with my life. We kept deliberating on ideas almost every week. Business ideas. But we got tired eventually, told each other the truth and we went our separate ways. No qualms. FYI, we're still very good friends. The time you're spending together is nothing... But how much is that person contr...

Daddy only taught me to give He didn’t teach me how to live In a world far different from that Which I was used to; momma’s pat Was only for a good result; No tips to live as an adult Innocent, to this town I came. In school was where I met the dame Who showed me how to play the game To survive in the quest for fame; We found a family, broken Souls in search of identity My heart was wide open, Ready to accept anyone Who was willing to walk In and never leave; but life Taught us that society rejects Those who seek help, and Praise those who have sold their soul Hunger tastes horribly, and Humbles humans but it Also heightens hopelessness. My legs took me to a path of no return, All hints of humanity left were Bled out on the bed where my Chastity was forcefully taken. Even my sobs didn’t solve my sufferings; My lips got tired of pleading for peace. Forgiveness was a futile journey, And forgetting wasn’t an option- Not when he was in every red car. S...

Happy Sunday onku. Why have you stopped posting on your blog? Please continue. We're enjoying you. So my story is this. My girlfriend that we have been dating since secondary school days broke up with me this year's valentines day. That day was our first valentine outing we had since we were dating so I didn't really know much about valentine and how to be romantic on that day and things like that. But she wanted us to go out so bad that I had no other option than to take her out with the little change I had. On that day, I dressed up in my Jean and top and went to meet her in her place to take her out. The first thing she started screaming about was my dressing. I'm not dressed in red red, I'm not romantic, I'm not this, I'm not that. Onku, how can I be dressing in red red to take my girlfriend out because of Valentine?. When my father is not from sango family. OnkuAde, if you see her that day, she wore red top, red trouser and red shoe. I was even ash...

To achieve this, you have to be able to slip into the man's subconscious and make him think that he wants to fall in love with you. It's a lot of manipulation, but it's a good game. The key to a man's heart/subconscious is in the things he takes pleasure in. The alcohol he can not do without, the food he loves, the type of women he wants ET cetera.Now, you have to find out that unique thing your target man takes pleasure in. Once you do, familiarise yourself with it, know everything there is to know about it for your own advantage then you can take these steps... 1. Make sure he sees you frequently. Men are moved by what they see, not what they hear. Let his brain register that you're always everywhere. He's going to be in a restaurant, be there, alone. He's going to be at a party, be there for him to see. Be the picture he sees every day. And don't just be the picture that's everywhere, be everywhere for his viewing pleasure. He's a man, h...

I get at least 80% attention from my parents, The girl child is seen as the pride of her household, She is the apple of her father's eye. Her mother instills the best upbringing in her, Just so she can make her family proud when she finally gets to her in-laws. What can be said about the one who has been defamed? Leaving her all shattered, She has been defiled and striped of her pride, A stigma that leaves a lifetime scar, Rather than being showed love, hatred is all she gets. Her speech is lost, Extinguishing her dreams, She becomes inferior not only to the society but also to herself. Being a girl child doesn't make me an object of molestation, Being a girl child doesn't give anyone the right to snatch my voice before I can even speak, Being a girl child doesn't mean I can't hold a post in the society, Being a girl child doesn't mean I should only be showed the four walls of my father's house, I also deserve to see and experience what...