Most women I've come across have always dreamt about their definition of a perfect man since their childhood. Some of the features their pictures of a perfect man share together are; holiness, handsomeness, wealthiness, caring, charming, manliness and loyalty.
These women are right to have this mental list of the characteristics that they expect in the man that's going to grace their bed. Everybody should have tastes.
Even female animals are choosy about whom they mate with.
Now, some men are naturally handsome, attracting women with little difficulty. But most have to rely on their wits, charm and the occasional bit of clever seduction to find a partner. Often, the handsome men do not tick the boxes of the "perfect man" list that the woman has prepared in her head. The handsomeness just often sweeps her off her feet.
On the other hand, the clever man more often makes efforts to be the perfect man for the woman that falls trap of his wit and charm. But in all, most ladies hardly come across their fairytale man in their lifetime.
These fairytale men exists, but ladies are always preoccupied with their list that they put together listening to other women's fairytale needs in a man.
Another big impairment is the fact that women often neglect themselves in their search for a perfect man. They don't work to improve their own self to achieve near perfection, they belive that their man would come and love them for the little that they're. But no, it doesn't work like that.
To deserve something that others do not have, you have to be something that others aren't.
So yes, the idea of a perfect man is true. But I belive women are only blessed with their taste of a perfect man if they allow the cosmos do it's job.
Some might argue that no one man can achieve absolute perfection. But to me, the entire concept is not to achieve perfection, its to be perfect in all imperfections.
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