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Welcome to my voyage. we're going to have a blast! join me as I find my way in this troubled galaxy we call home.

I've been a thinker all my life, wandering all over the world from my childhood with my curious yet troubled mind.
Why are human beings supposed to live in a certain way right from birth till death. The birth, the education, the relationships,  and, oh, the marriage, so ordinary yet highly overrated. The way of life and all of the averageness that comes with it. Why that way and not any other way? Who was the first human that lived through this state of life that every other average person now dearly hold on to?

Human beings do not realise just how far the mind can travel nor how deep and big the brain can go. Because of that self limitation, nobody knows about breaking through the roof, shattering norms and dogmas.

For some that do not have this bondage, fear is what holds them back. The fear of failure; What ifs and what does? What happens if it doesn't go as planned? What am I going to fall back to? Won't they tell me that they told me so?

I see all these and it burns a fire deep in me for I am a shelter within myself. That fire is why I'm here today. Starting a new chapter, a new journey; a voyage like I call it, one that I want to take you all on so we can unravel our relationships, our lives, look into our stories together and fish out the sweet ones and realise where and how to fuck dogmas.


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