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Who's a man?

Respect, focus, intelligence, decisiveness, authority, command, character, disposition. These and many more are basic characters that defines who a man should and must be.


A Yoruba man expecially. It should run in your blood.

The way you carry yourself as a man is another most important feature which you should be known for.

Your character should speak for you in places you haven't spoken.

You see, as a man, you can not talk unnecessarily in every conversation you find yourself in. Not every talk is your talk. And in every talk that you talk in, your talk must not spray the atmosphere with foolishness. And in every talk that you talk wisely, you can not impose on others. It's your word that's going to command that respect for you.

And when you do not know anything about what they're talking about, shut the hell up and listen to learn.
Don't try to prove intelligence in a conversation where you're the most clueless on the topic. When you shut up, It shows that you have strength. Not that you're weak.

You have to think. Act. Do extraordinary things and carry yourself around in the biggest self belief possible.

For example, as a man that hopes to command respect. You can not go to a lady's room and sit on the floor and start asking if they have any left over food. You are their poop boy.

Be proud. Don't make noise.

Know your thing. Yunno. You can't be caught in the middle of petty things or found toiling to have the biggest flowers on your head on your snap whatever.

And well, for the sweet topping, be sweet. Be, erm, romantic.

When you see a beautiful young lady, compliment her. Say nice things about  her top or legs or whatever attracts your attention on her body, be sincere and mean it. Then move on from there. You can't screw every girl that comes your way. You're going die.

Be meek sometimes too. It doesn't take anything away from you. And well, you don't need to be stubborn or rigid so people will see that you are living a manly life. Just chill and let it flow. You can not change the world.

Yours sincerely.

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