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Do girls really want to stay away from sex till their wedding night?

That is one tricky question that requires a lot of critical thinking, observation and careful processing. It's even more tricky because you can't say what applies to one girl is going to directly apply to other girls out there too.

But what you should understand is that girls see sex differently and the opinions they hold about sex differs according to their upbringing, the stories they've heard from their friend, the articles they have read and their personal convictions.
Today, most girls are just confused as to whether to have sex with their boyfriends or not. Largely, they don't know what they want especially when it's their first relationship and they've never come near having sex before. So out of morals and societal tales, they opt to stay a Virgin.
Some are not just ready mentally to deal with the sex and the after sex. So they run away from it!
As a guy, you should know that understanding, love and communication are everything that matters. Like I said earlier, girls are different. No one article can truthfully tell you whether or not your girlfriend wants to have sex with you and the steps you should take. You should try to listen to her and understand all the messages she's passing across to you.
If she's not ready, calm her down, give her time to work on herself and if she wants you, fine. Don't force yourself on her or use love as a bait; "if you love me, you will have sex with me" that line is so 2012.
If she's refusing to have sex with you because of some preconceived opinions about sex, pain and all that. Try to constructively make her form original and true opinions about sex. Make her see the light and the truth about it. And most importantly, through your actions, give her reasons why she should have sex with you.
If she still doesn't want you after everything. You should move on if all you want is sex from the relationship.
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  1. Unknown18 September 2018 at 21:28

    Nice one... 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁 many guys don't understand this...

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  2. Unknown19 September 2018 at 00:34

    Hmmm. . How I wish many guys can understand this dear... May God see these girls through

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  3. Unknown19 September 2018 at 00:57

    This is a nice one u gat u gat here dear. All I will say is that if a guy truly loves his girl, he will def respect her opinions.

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  4. Unknown19 September 2018 at 01:03

    I feel some girls do believe due to their upbringings especially from their parents that virginity is a girl's pride till marriage. But some girls don't care. All I will say is a guy should always respect his girl's decision no matter wat. Sex is not the key to a good or perfect relationship.

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  5. Unknown19 September 2018 at 01:04

    I feel some girls do believe due to their upbringings especially from their parents that virginity is a girl's pride till marriage. But some girls don't care. All I will say is a guy should always respect his girl's decision no matter wat. Sex is not the key to a good or perfect relationship.

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