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Five behaviours that kill a relationship.

Long lasting relationships do not stand only on love and romance, it takes sacrifice, selflessness and several other things to make a relationship survive.



1. The number one behaviour that is going to definitely kill your relationship is selfishness.
Being in a relationship means you should be ready to share everything you have, including yourself with your partner. It doesn't make sense to place value on material things and money over the needs of your partner.

2. Not being willing to listen to your partner's opinion is another that's going to set you on the path of destruction. Your partner's thoughts and opinions on a topic count too. You're not an island of knowledge, neither are you omnipotent. Put that at the back of your mind anytime there's a topic up for discussion with your partner, you can't always be right. Listen to their views too.


3. Pride. No doubt, "pride kills." It doesn't allow you to see what is, you continue blabbing wrongly. Pride makes you blind to corrections, it makes you feel like you can never be wrong. You don't want that in your relationship.


4. Anger. Anger destroys more than it can ever repair. I personally regard anger as one of the major downsides of being human. Nothing, I repeat, nothing should make you get angry in your relationship. There's no little anger or big anger, anger is anger. You can scold your partner, you can reprimand. I'm not saying you shouldn't let your feelings out and be you whenever you are angry. All I'm saying is, you should try as much as possible not to get visibly angry to the point where you begin to say things you can never take back again.


5. Forming business. Do not let anyone deceive you, no one is ever too busy to receive a one-minute phone call from their loved one. If you have to be too busy, drop your relationship. Having a partner that doesn't always have your time hurts more than a break up.


Finally, learn not to compare your partner with other people. Give sincere complements without having to place your partner side by side with other people.
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