My name is happiness and this is my story. My UNIOSUN story.

Note: That Acrimony movie and this blog are what prompted me to share my story. I already accepted my fate.

I met Kunle during our 100 level days. He was very handsome and intelligent, but he was so poor. Kunle was so intelligent, every girl I know of in Osogbo campus wanted to have something to do with him. The fact that he was graciously handsome also didn't help my case. I couldn't stop thinking about him.

He noticed me finally in 200 level and he asked me out. I said yes to him immediately. I was dying to date Kunle ever since I set me eyes on him during that Mth 101 class. In fact, I went to church because of him to pray to God to bring him to me if God truly loved me.

I knew fully well that Kunle had the potentials to not only be a fantastic womaniser, I knew he was dangerous and he will definitely hurt me. But this boy was very handsome and extraordinary when it came to sex. I've never seen anything like it before. So I went ahead and said yes to him anyway even though I knew he was dangerous.



Kunle had nothing. I mean, I met Kunle a totally wretched guy. He was so poor, I was the one helping him with recharge cards, I was the one always paying for our bike money anytime we went out together, I paid for everything. I had to intentionally buy him a dozen boxers as a gift on his birthday because the single one he had was supernaturally tattered and dirty. That boxer was modelling for poverty.

I even sent Christmas gifts and birthday gifts to his mother when he introduced me to her.

Despite all of these, don't forget that I gave Kunle my body. I slept with him everytime he asked because I didn't want him to have a excuse to sleep with any of those girls that were always calling and sending him breast pictures and always inviting him over to their hostels using study as cover.

I endured all that for two years of my life. I was always insecure, but I still managed with Kunle because I believed that he would get a good and handsomely paying job with his good grades and he will take care of me and repay me back for all those times that I suffered with him and endured.

We're in 400l now and I don't know my Kunle anymore. Kunle now smokes and drinks heavily. He has become so addicted to smoking, he doesn't go to class anymore he just stays back in his hostel and smoke from morning till night with his friends.

He doesn't have my time anymore. He doesn't want me anymore.

There was a day I went to check on my boyfriend in his hostel after days of not hearing from him. I met Kunle and two girls stark naked in the room. One of them is my close friend, and I've since stopped talking to her. Kunle pursued me that day and threatened to kill me if he ever sees me again.


That has been my life every since. I don't matter anymore to the man that I'm in love with.

I once asked him when he planned to meet my parents since we are almost done with school and my mother has been pushing me to bring someone home. He said he was never going to meet them as I'm not in his plans for the future.

I've not been myself ever since, I just pray that I pass my final exams successfully.

I also hope that  we women can be better and smarter when it comes to making relationship decisions. These men hurt us too much.

This is my story.