People are different. Not just in the way we look physically, walk, eat, run, drive, talk. But in our emotionally needs, in the way we seek attention, our longings, in the way we want our partners to make us feel loved, our deepest and dirtiest needs and fantasies.
We meet with people everyday, we talk, we go out together, we go into everyday relationships with them and sometimes they become our sexual partners.
Majority of the time, people do not take it necessary to take the hard work and the time to know what their partner truly wants in the relationship they're forming together. The adrenaline rush just takes control of everything and from there people often miss it when their partner pass across messages. Messages that could make or break the relationship.
In our makeup, we're all different.
Some want to be on the phone with their partner 24 hours a day while for some, a three minute call in the morning is all that they require.
The dependent minds rely upon their partners for emotional stability. Once things start going wrong in their relationship, they're always affected terribly. They disconnect themselves from other people and they become massively poor at work, school, and at everything they're good at.
They rely on their partner's world; confidence, strength, emotional stability, trust, compliment, courage, security, encouragement and every other uniqueness to help them pull through their own day. They need their partner to belive in them for them to be properly balanced . They want to always know that they're wanted by their partner, they want to feel loved and appreciated always. When all those are missing from their partner, they go back to the scratch and rebuild.
The independent mind is not dependent. They're their own source of compliment, inspiration, strength, courage, imagination.
Imagine their mind as a vast form of space, in that form of space is a sufficient amount of everything folded into each other. All they have to do when they're down is to reach within and they're up and running in the next minute. It doesn't matter to them who leaves or who stays, the day to day running of their life is in their own hands and they've got it under control and no part of their life is influence by anybody. Their validation and acceptance is in their own hands so much that, they do not care about what other people think of them.
The words that people do not say in a relationship are the ones that matter most. Most often, they're also the answer to most of the problems in our relationships. But because people do not pause to see, listen and think except its sex time. They lose the very people that are most precious and essential to them.
We meet with people everyday, we talk, we go out together, we go into everyday relationships with them and sometimes they become our sexual partners.
Majority of the time, people do not take it necessary to take the hard work and the time to know what their partner truly wants in the relationship they're forming together. The adrenaline rush just takes control of everything and from there people often miss it when their partner pass across messages. Messages that could make or break the relationship.
In our makeup, we're all different.
Some want to be on the phone with their partner 24 hours a day while for some, a three minute call in the morning is all that they require.
The dependent minds rely upon their partners for emotional stability. Once things start going wrong in their relationship, they're always affected terribly. They disconnect themselves from other people and they become massively poor at work, school, and at everything they're good at.
They rely on their partner's world; confidence, strength, emotional stability, trust, compliment, courage, security, encouragement and every other uniqueness to help them pull through their own day. They need their partner to belive in them for them to be properly balanced . They want to always know that they're wanted by their partner, they want to feel loved and appreciated always. When all those are missing from their partner, they go back to the scratch and rebuild.
The independent mind is not dependent. They're their own source of compliment, inspiration, strength, courage, imagination.
Imagine their mind as a vast form of space, in that form of space is a sufficient amount of everything folded into each other. All they have to do when they're down is to reach within and they're up and running in the next minute. It doesn't matter to them who leaves or who stays, the day to day running of their life is in their own hands and they've got it under control and no part of their life is influence by anybody. Their validation and acceptance is in their own hands so much that, they do not care about what other people think of them.
The words that people do not say in a relationship are the ones that matter most. Most often, they're also the answer to most of the problems in our relationships. But because people do not pause to see, listen and think except its sex time. They lose the very people that are most precious and essential to them.
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