Eerybody has a crush. No? Maybe not everybody. But on a scale of 1-100, 90% of us has a crush. I had one once when I was in 200 level. She is black, chubby, full front and back and radiant. I kept crushing on her until my heart could no longer take it. Anyway, back to the topic.
When you finally get the attention of your crush, your mission is to make their heart align perfectly with yours on a straight line. You want your crush to be able to finally feel whatever you have been feeling since 1770.
To do that, you have to understand who your crush is. I suppose this shouldn't be a problem because if you have been crushing on somebody, you must have been studying their life and body language too from afar. So when you understand who that person is, you have to show them that you can perform on their stage, with their tempo.
Most important of all, don't immediately confess love to your crush. It's a miscalculated and desperate move. I know you must have loved that person since like forever and you can't wait for things to get all sexual between you too, but to them, your love is new. So you do not want to give them too much to think about so soon.
If you're a guy and you finally get the attention of your female crush, don't go crazy and start buying every item available to buy in shoprite. Like I said, you must have studied, start doing those very things that will generate a response from her heart, things that will matter to her. Not things that you think matters. Look at her from her perspective. For some girls, it might just be the smallest of things that her feelings respond to. Things like cooking for her, holding the door for her, using your last kobo to recharge her phone, holding her hands... Etc. Like they say, "it's not the gift that matters, it's the intention"
Girls, if you have finally gotten the attention of your male crush. Don't rush him! Calm down, relax and think. If you March into his life like you own an apartment there, there's a huge risk that he's going to take you for granted and he's going to start thinking that you're one cheap girl especially if he's a guy that's walking around without common sense. So ehn, calm down. Play balls with him, be ready to catch, but let him shoot the ball first. I know he's your crush, and you finally got his attention, but trust me, once you get a guys attention, he's not going anywhere until he achieves him aim with you. Don't start clinging to him like you're a lizard and he's the wall. Don't start going to his place 24/7. He's going to get tired of you quickly before you even get started.
Happy loving.
When you finally get the attention of your crush, your mission is to make their heart align perfectly with yours on a straight line. You want your crush to be able to finally feel whatever you have been feeling since 1770.
To do that, you have to understand who your crush is. I suppose this shouldn't be a problem because if you have been crushing on somebody, you must have been studying their life and body language too from afar. So when you understand who that person is, you have to show them that you can perform on their stage, with their tempo.
Most important of all, don't immediately confess love to your crush. It's a miscalculated and desperate move. I know you must have loved that person since like forever and you can't wait for things to get all sexual between you too, but to them, your love is new. So you do not want to give them too much to think about so soon.
If you're a guy and you finally get the attention of your female crush, don't go crazy and start buying every item available to buy in shoprite. Like I said, you must have studied, start doing those very things that will generate a response from her heart, things that will matter to her. Not things that you think matters. Look at her from her perspective. For some girls, it might just be the smallest of things that her feelings respond to. Things like cooking for her, holding the door for her, using your last kobo to recharge her phone, holding her hands... Etc. Like they say, "it's not the gift that matters, it's the intention"
Girls, if you have finally gotten the attention of your male crush. Don't rush him! Calm down, relax and think. If you March into his life like you own an apartment there, there's a huge risk that he's going to take you for granted and he's going to start thinking that you're one cheap girl especially if he's a guy that's walking around without common sense. So ehn, calm down. Play balls with him, be ready to catch, but let him shoot the ball first. I know he's your crush, and you finally got his attention, but trust me, once you get a guys attention, he's not going anywhere until he achieves him aim with you. Don't start clinging to him like you're a lizard and he's the wall. Don't start going to his place 24/7. He's going to get tired of you quickly before you even get started.
Happy loving.
Lizard and walls. .. Beautiful analogy... Nice piece too of course
ReplyDeleteNice one ooo, cause some people actually walk without sense
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