unreciprocated love, a painful love.

Unreciprocated love will make you stupid, dumb, idiotic, crazy and foolish all at the same time. You want to have that someone in your arms always but then, they don't want to have you! That someone is who you want to talk to and be around all day but they do not want your presence.

One sided love is what makes you cry bitterly. That love is what keeps you awake all night. It is what makes you tensed and sad everytime you're not recognised.

You only have peace when the one you love calls, but your sadness and bitterness level rises everytime you're remembered how unimportant you're in the life of the person you can lay down your life for.

They don't want you and just want another. In your presence, they hug, hold and smile to someone else's dry jokes. A privilege you never have.

The more deeply you love, the weaker you're. You will do things for them that you know you shouldn't do. Things you shouldn't do, things that will affect you, things you will never forget as long as you still live. You will act the fool to make them happy, to keep them safe. You will travel miles for them just to keep them happy and see to their safety.

You believe in what you see. But if you say, literally that you love somebody and you're not shown that love in return. What's there to believe then?

Why's love like that?Why's love so painful?

Love is that emotion that makes you want to die for someone that doesn't care about you. Love is the illusion that makes you make someone the world you live in but they won't even walk into your arms. Unreciprocated Love is the pain that comes every time you feel fulfilled and you're happy to see someone that doesn't want to see your face.

How? Why?

Should love not be caring, welcoming, reciprocating and be all that matters between two people?

Maybe love is a traitor. You just want to feel wanted, just like that. That's why you dig tirelessly to find love where there's no love, why the person you're showing so much love to isn't even interested in something as necessary as your happiness. That big tear in your eye, I don't understand it. It's called pain and sorrow.

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