Cultural and religious beliefs are two deeply rooted societal shareholders that frowns at most of a woman's opportunities to be who she wants to be and to be with whoever she wants to be with.
Societal beliefs frown at women walking up to a man first to talk about the possibility of a sexual relationship because it expects that to be a man's role.
I had my first relationship at a young age. I was young and innocent, but I had a huge and tall physicality with a very broad and smart mind to compliment my physicality and leave people doubting whether I was truly the age I said I was.
I wouldn't and couldn't walk up to a girl at that age to ask for a relationship. I lacked the confidence to do so, and I just didn't know how. I admired girls from afar and I wanted to be with them but I just found it astonishingly difficult to walk up to a woman and shoot. I froze everytime I tried!
Then, I fell in love with a girl and fortunately for me, I knew that she was in love with me too. [Remember I said I only lacked confidence. I wasn't stupid.] We both knew very well how we felt for each other, but I couldn't take that expected manly leap and confess my love for her and ask her to be my girl. If I didn't talk, I would risk loosing her to some other lucky dude who would speak up early, if she buried her feelings for me as well, she risked loosing me to another girl. So, the gains and losses go both ways. That was what she understood, and she knew me, she knew that there was no way in hell that I would come to her and "toast" her like every other dude. So, she took the bold leap and told me about how she felt asking if I felt the same way for her. I took it from there. We had a great relationship.
Now, imagine if she didn't put norms and culture aside? That chapter of our life wouldn't have happened. That's just to say, societal norms and expectations are hindrances. They're stumbling blocks that you need to conquer and move ahead from if you want to make any real headway in life as a woman.You have to do the very opposite of what norms are.
Either you like it or not, there's going to be a man at one point in your life that you're going to want but he won't see you.
Note that; it's okay for a guy not to notice that you're drawn to him. He could possibly be preoccupied by work, life, school, personal issues among other things to the point where he doesn't have the space to accommodate emotions in his life. But once a man notices that you're drawn to him and you try as much as possible to pass that message across to him in the most romantic way you can cook up and he doesn't WANT you still. He probably has eyes for someone else. You have to move on because it takes two to tangle.
Things you can do when you finally get his attention [ click here]
If you love and want a man in your life, walk up to him and tell him exactly how you feel. Do not bother about how he's going to react or how he's going to see you after you confess your love to him because the kind of person you're is what is going to determine the kind of man you're romantically attracted to. In other words, if he sees you as a cheap and slutty woman after you ask him out, it means you're attracted to a cheap and slutty man.
If he takes your feelings for him honorable, that means you're attracted to an honorable man.
Lastly, sometimes these men you're tripping for have your feelings at heart too but they are just short of words and time to even try to start working their way into your heart because they know the hard to get attitude of most Nigerian ladies. But, they don't know that you love them already and they're already in your heart. Yet, you're stalling. So who's going to tell them that they're not going to waste their precious time, and they won't need to have to work their way into your heart?
Besides, how do you know if a man you love secretly is wanting you secretly too? You will never find out unless you speak up. Will you?
Societal beliefs frown at women walking up to a man first to talk about the possibility of a sexual relationship because it expects that to be a man's role.
I had my first relationship at a young age. I was young and innocent, but I had a huge and tall physicality with a very broad and smart mind to compliment my physicality and leave people doubting whether I was truly the age I said I was.
I wouldn't and couldn't walk up to a girl at that age to ask for a relationship. I lacked the confidence to do so, and I just didn't know how. I admired girls from afar and I wanted to be with them but I just found it astonishingly difficult to walk up to a woman and shoot. I froze everytime I tried!
Then, I fell in love with a girl and fortunately for me, I knew that she was in love with me too. [Remember I said I only lacked confidence. I wasn't stupid.] We both knew very well how we felt for each other, but I couldn't take that expected manly leap and confess my love for her and ask her to be my girl. If I didn't talk, I would risk loosing her to some other lucky dude who would speak up early, if she buried her feelings for me as well, she risked loosing me to another girl. So, the gains and losses go both ways. That was what she understood, and she knew me, she knew that there was no way in hell that I would come to her and "toast" her like every other dude. So, she took the bold leap and told me about how she felt asking if I felt the same way for her. I took it from there. We had a great relationship.
Now, imagine if she didn't put norms and culture aside? That chapter of our life wouldn't have happened. That's just to say, societal norms and expectations are hindrances. They're stumbling blocks that you need to conquer and move ahead from if you want to make any real headway in life as a woman.You have to do the very opposite of what norms are.
Either you like it or not, there's going to be a man at one point in your life that you're going to want but he won't see you.
Note that; it's okay for a guy not to notice that you're drawn to him. He could possibly be preoccupied by work, life, school, personal issues among other things to the point where he doesn't have the space to accommodate emotions in his life. But once a man notices that you're drawn to him and you try as much as possible to pass that message across to him in the most romantic way you can cook up and he doesn't WANT you still. He probably has eyes for someone else. You have to move on because it takes two to tangle.
Things you can do when you finally get his attention [ click here]
If you love and want a man in your life, walk up to him and tell him exactly how you feel. Do not bother about how he's going to react or how he's going to see you after you confess your love to him because the kind of person you're is what is going to determine the kind of man you're romantically attracted to. In other words, if he sees you as a cheap and slutty woman after you ask him out, it means you're attracted to a cheap and slutty man.
If he takes your feelings for him honorable, that means you're attracted to an honorable man.
Lastly, sometimes these men you're tripping for have your feelings at heart too but they are just short of words and time to even try to start working their way into your heart because they know the hard to get attitude of most Nigerian ladies. But, they don't know that you love them already and they're already in your heart. Yet, you're stalling. So who's going to tell them that they're not going to waste their precious time, and they won't need to have to work their way into your heart?
Besides, how do you know if a man you love secretly is wanting you secretly too? You will never find out unless you speak up. Will you?
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